Son dating the wrong girl

This girl is only 13 and so doesn't have any exams herself.

Admittedly I am not friends with anyone who has teenage girls, for all I know they see boys behaving in the exact same manner. I would not tolerate my own children talking to me in such a disrespectful manner and I certainly would not take it from one of their friends. Then I ignored the next 8 calls from her as we drove the 2 miles home. So far my son says she isn’t bothering him and the phone records support this. When my kids were younger and the subject of them dating would come up I would say that I wasn’t going to allow dating until they were married. My only experiences thus far in the teenage world of dating has been as the mother of boys. Either that or her brothers will scare off any boy that dares to come near her. They are the ones pressuring the girls to go further. And my hope is that having six brothers takes the mystery out of boys and that she won’t want to date, knowing that they are gross, farting, burping, smelly creatures. Typically we think of boys as being the aggressors in dating situations.Our son spend a lot of time getting dragged into her problems. They came up with an arrangement that they were only to spend time with each other.I regularly walk in on him at night when he should be asleep and he is on the phone to her because she is feeling paranoid or someone has says something bad to her. She constantly needs reassurance from him that he loves her.

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